He argued that the problem wasn't just the credit card balance, but the financial system the couple had created. "You decided out of the gate, I'm going to row in my boat, you row in yours, and now you're mad at the direction he's rowing," co-host John Delony said. "You lost all the right to vote on his money when you said, I'm not going to vote on your money," personal finance personality Dave Ramsey told her. But when she confronted him about the debt and demanded he cancel the card and stick to a strict ...