“I got caught up on the mortgage and I am making all the household bills.” (Photo subject is a model.) - Getty Images/iStockphoto Dear Quentin, My husband is seven years younger than I am. However, he has early-onset dementia, which has turned our lives upside down. I am in my mid-60s, at retirement age now, but I plan to work much longer. The property can make income too. This is our second marriage. Luckily, I did not mix our finances. He was self-employed and had this 10-acre home for 30 years. We al ...