A Reddit user recently sparked a heated discussion after revealing she's been secretly saving $500 a month in a private account her husband doesn't know about. Over two years, she's built up $12,000—all while her spouse continues to spend on travel, tech, and home upgrades with no interest in budgeting or planning ahead. A Safety Net Or A Betrayal? The original poster, who has been married for six years, described herself as the saver in the relationship and her spouse as the spender. She said that aft ...